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Personal Counselling

 

Student Health 101

What is Counselling?

Counselling involves the development of a relationship between a client and a trained professional (e.g., Counsellor) that focuses on the client’s concerns and difficulties. It is a process in which individuals have the opportunity to improve upon their understanding of themselves, including their patterns of thoughts, behaviour, feelings, and the way in which these may have been problematic in their lives. Counselling also provides individuals with opportunities to examine how to tap into existing resources or develop new ones that enhance their lives and relationships. Counselling is a collaborative effort as it involves the counsellor and client working together to identify goals.

Do “normal” people need counselling?

The idea that only “crazy” people seek out counselling is a common myth. In fact, a large segment of society will benefit from counselling at some point in their lives. Individuals seeking out counselling face normal developmental and life concerns. Difficulties managing stress, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, identity concerns, poor self-esteem, relationship problems, and loneliness are only a few of the reasons for which people may choose to engage in the counselling process. University students seek counselling for the above issues along with more population-specific concerns such as career indecision, exam anxiety, academic pressures, homesickness, adjustment to their new surroundings, and difficulties balancing work, school and home life.

How Do I know if I should seek Counselling?

It may be an appropriate time to seek help if you are experiencing any of the following:

  • Feelings of helplessness and hopelessness
  • Personal issues interfering with sleep, eating habits, concentration, academic performance, and/or relationships
  • Persistent worry
  • Prolonged sadness
  • Feeling depressed, lethargic, or apathetic
  • Thoughts of suicide or wanting to harm yourself
  • Increased irritability, inappropriate mood swings, angry outbursts
  • Engaging in bizarre, threatening or dangerous behaviour, violent or other extremely disruptive behaviour (e.g., hostile, threats, assaults)
  • Indecisiveness or difficulties making decisions
  • Loss of control of your life
  • Experiencing uncertainty about your choice of university major or career
  • Concerned about behaviour or psychological status of someone else (e.g., partner, family member, peer) and wondering about how or even whether you should intervene

Should I see a counsellor?

In the course of a lifetime, most of us will experience several personally traumatic incidents. The break up of an important relationship, serious conflict within our family, failing an important exam, the death of a friend or family member, an unwanted pregnancy, a serious health problem, being victimized by a violent act, etc., can all cause psychological upset. Seeking the advice and perspective of a counsellor can help students regain their certainty and help rebuild their confidence. You may want to speak with one of our counsellors if you are experiencing some of the following symptoms:

Physical Reactions

Fatigue, insomnia, sleeping too much, under-activity, headaches, nightmares, hyperactivity, startle reactions, exhaustion, diarrhea.

Cognitive Reactions

Difficulty with concentration, solving problems, making decisions, memory disturbance, flashbacks, inability to attach importance to anything other than the incident.

Emotional Reactions

Fear, guilt, emotional numbing, over sensitivity, anger, irritability, anxiety, depression, violent fantasies, feelings of helplessness, amnesia for the event.

Counselling Services

If you are experiencing any or all of the symptoms listed above, we encourage you to consider seeing a counsellor. YOu can have individual appointments with one of our personal counsellors, who are located in Room 105 McKenzie Building (Student Services). To book an appointment, call (204) 727-9739 or you may also email us at janzen@brandonu.ca

There are other options, for instance, you may wish to read articles on a wide variety of issues, problems and possible steps toward healthy resolution. Some excellent articles are available at:

How can I best benefit from counselling?

As a client, there are certain steps you can take to help make the counselling process more beneficial to you. We recommend the following:

  • Attend scheduled sessions and arrive on time
  • Be specific about the concerns that have led you to seek counselling
  • Work with your counsellor to establish goals
  • Give thought to what you would like to discuss during each session
  • Be willing to explore new behaviours within and outside of your sessions
  • Complete assigned homework tasks/readings
  • Discuss ongoing progress and work with your Counsellor to modify your goals
  • Communicate with your Counsellor when the process is not helpful to your

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